Do you agree that ppl should stop asking for votes??

Hi.. i am new to MalaysiaMums. i find things that are really interesting here but there are some things i just find it quite weird.

i posted my girl photo in photo contests. many votes for her and the same time i was asked to vote for them back in other category even the same category. of course i don't mind cos they voted for my daughter, i spared one vote for them in order to thanks them and their baby are really cute too!
but somehow i think this gonna have a huge affects to the results. and i think it's a little bit unfair for those who doesn't ask for the votes.
sometimes, some ppl may not think your children's pics that cute. i mean it.
i am not mad.. i just think this quite unfair.
i started to vote for one baby in cutest baby contest and asked her to vote for my girl back. after that, i was confused and thought, it was such a silly things to do. just because i wanted to catch more votes and did like others did. it's quite tiring to be honest.. lol.

well, so i decided to vote for those who vote me but i won't ask for anyone's vote. it's gonna be very unfair to others.
well, this is my principle. ;-)
my girl may not win but it's fine for me..
as long as i am happy to be able to share with all of great and cute photos of your little ones..

God bless...